“What I liked playing with as a child, I have liked playing with
later in life. Houses, for instance. . . I can see quite plainly now that
I have continued to play house ever since . . . Houses! God bless houses!” --- Agatha Christie
In
June, before we had our house, I would ride with Mark in the mornings when he
went to work and then spend his eight desk-hours prowling the downtown on
foot. This was most days for a month. When I had exhausted the possibilities of
familiar grounds, I broadened my excursions into surrounding
neighborhoods. Walking between office
buildings had been like exploring an airport: fast-paced, ever-changing
scenery, but highly impersonal.
Residential
areas were exactly the inverse. I saw
fewer human beings and much less activity, and I felt more welcome. If downtown had been an airport, these
neighborhoods were a jolly family gathering at which I was related to no one
and yet never begrudged participation in the surrounding merriment. The office buildings had not wanted to be
known, but these old Victorian homes were willing to be friends.
One
house was of particular interest. I
happened upon it initially in what was clearly an in-between stage and began
returning each day to see what progress had been made. It was a trim, moderate Victorian and was
being done in the painted-lady style, in four colors: one for the siding,
another for the trim, and still two others for architectural details. To be honest, I found the finished product
somewhat uninspiring, but the self-appointed duty of monitoring the job gave me
a further sense of connection to the neighborhood. It was a daily inquiry into the well-being of
a fond acquaintance.
Maybe,
rather than as a person, it is more apt to consider a house as an outer garment
worn collectively by the family within.
There are always people, and I can hardly fault them for it, who have
higher priorities than clothing, and the same is true by extension for their
houses. But a house is to me what
clothes are for the ones who devote laborious attention to their wardrobes. Houses seem like people because it is so
clear to my eye the ways in which the exterior reflects the people living
inside. There were less people to be
seen in the conventional way in the neighborhoods than there were downtown, but
I noticed all the unmistakable hints about taste and personality subtly
reflected in the faces their houses presented to the passing-by world.
In
recent weeks I have driven daily past a sweet old house while taking Mark to
work in the mornings and picking him up in the afternoons. Every step in the building of an elaborate,
brand-new front porch has been easily available for scrutiny, and I have
enjoyed the insight into the feelings of the homeowners. It is a sturdy and luxurious porch, and the
house, which is probably at least a century old, is deftly complemented by the
addition; it is as though the porch has always been there, although I know very
well how new it is. My observations have
given me the distinct feeling that the people whose home it is are very fond of
this box that they live in. It makes my
house-loving heart glad.
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